sometimes moving on with the rest of you life,

{starts with goodbye}

'i don't know why we all hang onto something we know we're better off letting go. it's like we're scared to lose what we really don't even have. some of us say we'd rather have something than nothing at all... but the truth is to have something halfway is harder than having it at all.'

it's hard. it's sad. it's different. we don't like it. 
but sometimes it needs to be done. 
because letting go will feel better in the end, anyway--

 the truth is this:

it was really hard. 

& although it was more than a year overdue;

...i finally did it.