boys are cheats & liars.

it isn't that hard to not be a cheater. not at all. if you're dating or married to someone you truly care about, you wouldn't get yourself into a situation where you would be tempted to cheat on them. if you find yourself in a situation where you are a cheater, maybe you don't care about that person as much as you thought. but i think that's okay. i consider it a learning experience. although, it would be nice to get out of a relationship before any cheating occurs; because i think whether you're faithful or not says a lot about your character. playing people & getting away with cheating by keeping it a secret & acting like nothing happened is not okay. someone will get hurt & you'll earn the reputation of being a cheater. people say once a cheater, always a cheater. but i believe people truly can change. everyone makes mistakes. it's what you take from those mistakes that defines you as a person. hopefully you choose to better yourself & never make that mistake again.

i want to find someone that just wants to be with me & loves me enough to never cheat on me.